In a large Dutch oven, bring oil to 325 degrees F. In the meantime, in a large bowl, combine the lobster, 1 teaspoon of the sesame oil, black sesame seeds, soy sauce, ponzu, hot chili sauce, salt and pepper and fish sauce. In a medium bowl, combine seaweed, remaining sesame oil and sesame seeds and toss to coat. Place the wontons in the oil and fry until golden brown, about 1 minute. Remove from oil to a paper towel lined plate and sprinkle with salt.
To assemble, divide seaweed salad onto 4 plates and top with lobster salad. Garnish with wonton crisps and serve immediately.